Dear Baxter

Dear Baxter, I’'ve never been anyone'’s idea of a prude or conservative, but my girlfriend loves nothing more than to strip off her clothes when she gets home and strut around the place naked. She says it “helps her unwind.” I can respect that but we live in a house on a busy street and sometimes she won't even close the blinds...

Dear Baxter, My best friend told me recently that I am a slut.  Can you believe it?  I am the kind of person that likes to enjoy life.  I date several different guys and I just like to have a good time.  What's wrong with that? Signed, Alicia,   St Cloud, MN  Alicia, First of all, Alicia, there is a fine line between a slut and a good sport...

Dear Baxter, Recently, my boyfriend and I were engaged in a steamy round of foreplay.  While I was pleasuring him, my gum fell out of my mouth and got stuck on him.  I thought it was funny but he got very angry.  I'm now having second thoughts about the future of our relationship...

Baxter, I recently had some surgery done and was prescribed some medications.  Not just a few different medications, 14 in all.  It's a full time job figuring out and organizing what to take and when.  Any suggestions? Signed, Ben        St Cloud, MN Hey Ben, Hope your surgery was a success...

Baxter, After a few failed relationships, I am just about ready to give up.  What is it that women want?  Help me! Signed, Derek    St Cloud, MN Derek, There was a study done several years ago that interviewed over 100 thousand women of all ages...

Baxter, I sure hope you have some good advice for me.  My wife has made the last 15 years of my life a living Hell.  I can't even begin to explain what a cruel, vile human being she is. Recently she hired a sleazy cut throat lawyer, whom she is also sleeping with, and filed for divorce...

Dear Baxter, I love my husband but I also love nice things, like, really nice things.  Last week, he asked me what I wanted for our anniversary.  I told him if he really wanted to know, I wanted this diamond bracelet we saw window shopping...

Dear Baxter, When I'm out with my boyfriend, I constantly catch him looking at other women.  This makes me insecure.  Am I not good enough?  Why would he feel the need to check out other women? Signed, Darla     Waite Park, MN Darla, Darla, Darla, Not to worry...

Dear Baxter, I've been married to my husband for over 20 years now and the last 15 years or so, he refuses to cuddle after we make love.  To me this is a very important part of lovemaking and I need that extra closeness.  What's his problem...

Dear Baxter, I was upset by something that happened at work last week and when I needed comfort from my boyfriend, he started kissing and undressing me. He always does this! When I had a fight with my sister and was upset about it, the same thing happened...

Dear Baxter, The guy I’m seeing treats me well, but he seems to be a little on the vain, self-involved side. I’ve noticed that during sex, he keeps looking at himself in my full-length mirror instead of looking at me! And he’s always asking me to take pictures of him with his shirt off, in his boxers, etc...

Dear Baxter, My boyfriend has a strange, unsettling way of corresponding with his exes on social media. He’s always bragging about his latest accomplishments and posting pictures of himself after working out in the gym, pumping iron, etc...