Dear Baxter, I Think My New Boyfriend is an Exhibitionist

Dear Baxter,

This is going to sound freaky but I think the new guy I'm seeing might be an exhibitionist. He not only likes to have secret sex in public places (I think he WANTS someone to catch us, personally) but a few weeks ago, he actually opened the curtains in my apartment so the neighbors could see right into my bedroom. He works out constantly and likes to show off his body and while that's fine, I don't have the same kind of confidence. What do I do about this?

Signed,

Lesley-Anne    Sartell, MN

Leslie-Anne,

Since he is a new boyfriend, it's early enough to lay down a few ground rules.  No outdoors stuff, No open curtains in the bedroom and absolutely no lights on, complete darkness during the act.  It seems your new boyfriend didn't get the memo that the last thing  some women want to see is a guy having a good time.  Hope this helps.

Baxter

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