Dear Baxter, My boyfriend is a manic bodybuilder, which is cool because he takes very good care of himself, eats healthy, etc.  I suspect he might be using steroids because he has been getting extremely large in the last few months.  I'm not sure this will be good for our relationship. Should I confront him?


Ann Marie   Waite Park, MN

Ann Marie,

And here, all this time, I thought women were into guys with big muscles, one eyebrow, mood swings, shrunken testicles and the inability to reach and wipe themselves.  Give him time.  If he starts screaming out his own name during sex or states that he wishes he were you so he could make love to him, dump him before he develops a case roid rage. Hope this helps.



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