Dear Baxter,

I broke up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago then, we got together for dinner to get some closure. Well...we had too much wine and ended up in bed together. Now I think he thinks I want to get back together, but I was really looking at it as a goodbye. What can I say to him now to smooth things over?


Kathryn   St Cloud, MN


Sounds like you accomplished anything but closure.  But, what an excellent opportunity for you to yank his heart out and stomp on it once again.  Aw, love, a many splintered thing.  Hope this helps.


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