Those Darn Husbands Can Stress a Person Out
This is not surprising to me at all... although I don't have children, but from what I have seen at least you can tell them what to do. Your husband, not so much. Check out this study that was done to show that husbands are twice as likely to stress you out than your kids.
The problem seems to be that women feel as though they are not able to balance everything in their lives. Kids, husband, work, household duties and apparently husbands tend to depend on their wives for a lot of things as well and it's stressful! According to this study, husbands aren't doing their part of the household stuff. Not to sound like I don't know what they are talking about, but it seems like maybe someone needs to have a conversation with their significant other.
"Yo! Could I get some help up in this place???"
Might be a better way to ask for help. But the idea is to ASK. Yes, ask for help. You never know, things may go smoothly. Maybe your sig other thinks you like doing this stuff and you don't want any help.