It's a fact of life... couples fight.  Some are worse than others... but ALL couples fight at some time or another.  If it gets be a lot, or over something bigger... might want to give that one another look.  But for now, these are the top 5 things that couples fight about.  And yes, sex is one of the top 5 but not number 1.....

5.  What to spend money on.  Usually you should plan an amount that either one can spend without consulting the other.  $100 is a good starting point for most people.

4. How much phone time to have.  Let's try and put the phone down at meal times and at bedtime.  Especially if you have a family.  Dinner is family time and at bed time you may not have any other alone time to talk about stuff you, as a couple, need to talk about....or do.....

3. How often to have sex.  Surprise...

2. What "Clean" looks like.  There is a difference between a place being clean and a place just being picked up.

1. How does the cleaning get done?  Who does what... like maybe outlining chores.  Maybe not as much as you would for a child... but there needs to be some sort of expectation.

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