Dear Baxter,

I can't believe I'm writing to you for advice but I don't know what else to do. Seems I can't go out anywhere with my boyfriend without him gawking at just about every woman around. People have always told me I'm extremely attractive, so I just don't understand why he does this. I have not confronted him about this because I don't want to seem insecure and jealous. What can I do?

Signed,

Karla     Sauk Rapids, MN

Karla,

Not to worry. I would guess he is looking at other women only to note how inferior they are to you. There, feel better?

Signed,

Baxter

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