Dear Baxter, I Just Found Out the Woman I’m Going to Marry Has Quite the Past.
I sure hope you can help me. I've been engaged for a few months now and all was going great. Lately, I've been hearing all sorts of things about my fiance's sexual adventures before we met. Seems you can't swing a dead cat in this town without hitting a guy she has pleasured in one way or another. I really love her but my mindset is weighing heavily on me. To make it worse, we agreed when we first got together to not ask about each other's past relationships. I don't know what to do. Am I marrying a slut?
JS St Cloud, MN
Whoa, first of all there is a fine line between a slut and a good sport. Let's assume she was the latter. Look at the bright side, she went through all these guys and picked you. Not to mention, you have something in common with a whole bunch of guys, all because of her. Hope this helps.
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