Relationships

Dear Baxter, I just had the most disappointing Christmas ever!  I was sure my boyfriend was going to pop the question this Christmas and was really expecting an engagement ring under the tree.  Well, to make a long story short, he gave me luggage...

Baxter, Not sure what to do.  Lately, my wife has been hinting that she wants to get a breast enlargement for her Christmas gift.  I checked into it and it's very expensive.  I really like her just the way she is but I want her to be happy...

Baxter, A couple of years ago, when I was working as a bartender, I hooked up with a very attractive, yet older woman.  It was just one night and I never saw her again.  That is until my fiance took me home to meet her parents.  It was very awkward and I could see the fear in her mother's face when she saw me...

Dear Baxter, I don't know who else to ask, so I guess I'm stuck with you, haha.  My boyfriend always smokes a bowl before we have sex.  I've asked him about it and he says it heightens his senses and makes sex even better.  I feel that, for some reason, he has to get high to sleep with me...

Dear Baxter, I’'ve never been anyone'’s idea of a prude or conservative, but my girlfriend loves nothing more than to strip off her clothes when she gets home and strut around the place naked. She says it “helps her unwind.” I can respect that but we live in a house on a busy street and sometimes she won't even close the blinds...

Dear Baxter, My best friend told me recently that I am a slut.  Can you believe it?  I am the kind of person that likes to enjoy life.  I date several different guys and I just like to have a good time.  What's wrong with that? Signed, Alicia,   St Cloud, MN  Alicia, First of all, Alicia, there is a fine line between a slut and a good sport...

Dear Baxter, Recently, my boyfriend and I were engaged in a steamy round of foreplay.  While I was pleasuring him, my gum fell out of my mouth and got stuck on him.  I thought it was funny but he got very angry.  I'm now having second thoughts about the future of our relationship...

Baxter, After a few failed relationships, I am just about ready to give up.  What is it that women want?  Help me! Signed, Derek    St Cloud, MN Derek, There was a study done several years ago that interviewed over 100 thousand women of all ages...

Baxter, I sure hope you have some good advice for me.  My wife has made the last 15 years of my life a living Hell.  I can't even begin to explain what a cruel, vile human being she is. Recently she hired a sleazy cut throat lawyer, whom she is also sleeping with, and filed for divorce...

Dear Baxter, I love my husband but I also love nice things, like, really nice things.  Last week, he asked me what I wanted for our anniversary.  I told him if he really wanted to know, I wanted this diamond bracelet we saw window shopping...

Dear Baxter, When I'm out with my boyfriend, I constantly catch him looking at other women.  This makes me insecure.  Am I not good enough?  Why would he feel the need to check out other women? Signed, Darla     Waite Park, MN Darla, Darla, Darla, Not to worry...

Dear Baxter, I've been married to my husband for over 20 years now and the last 15 years or so, he refuses to cuddle after we make love.  To me this is a very important part of lovemaking and I need that extra closeness.  What's his problem...